"Cheating is a choice, not a mistake. Don’t be fooled."

"Some people don’t realize they lost a good thing until they see the next person with it, then suddenly they want it back."


"Just because I don’t care doesn’t mean I’m not listening."

"Sometimes, you love someone so much that not even the truth can change your mind."

"Time heals all wounds. But memories cut it deeper."

"Don’t blame people for disappointing you, blame yourself for expecting too much from them."

"Wounds don’t mean you lost, they mean you cared enough to fight."

"You’re not really living, until you’ve found something to die for."

"Lying doesn’t make the truth go away, it just postpones it."

"I rather live with the disappointment of achieving something I shouldn’t have chased rather than live with the disappointment of not chasing what I should have achieved.

"When you thought you can never love again, someone comes along to prove you wrong."

"It’s not about the amount of days in your life, it’s about the amount of life in your days."

"Instead of wiping away your tears, wipe away the people who created them."

"If you have a problem with the way I live my life, maybe you should take more interest in your own."

Everyone has a secret they haven’t shared. Everyone has a past no one’s heard about. Everyone has talents that people don’t notice. Everyone has weaknesses hidden inside. Everyone has a story left untold, so never start judging someone thinking you know them back to front. Because the truth is, you probably don’t."

"Realize what you have before it turns into what you had."


"Not every question is worth an answer. Not every comment is worth a reply."

"I may not talk to you, but I remember your voice. I may not see you, but I have a perfect image of your face. I may not hug you anymore, but I remember your scent. I may have deleted your texts, but I’ll always remember what you said."

"The ones that dislike you are usually the ones that never took the chance to get to know you."

"Promise is a big word: it either makes something, or it breaks everything."

"Never lie to people, because the people you are able to lie to are the people who trust you."

"Don’t take it personal, if they don’t know you personally."

"It takes people three seconds to say ‘I love you’, but a lifetime to show it."


Saying nothing sometimes says the most.

"People say “there are other fish in the sea” I say ‘fuck you, he was my sea.’"


"Sometimes, the ones you think are worth fighting for are the ones fighting against you."

"Life is full of fake people. Before you decide to judge them, make sure you’re not one of them."

"Sometimes people with the worst pasts can create the best future."

"If the feelings aren’t there, then you shouldn’t be either."

"I look up to the people who keep on dancing even after the music has stopped, because those are the people who will keep on trying even after all hope is lost."

"If you don’t stay focused, the lines between right and wrong sometimes become blurred."

"Pretending to be more than you are makes you even less."

"The hardest thing in life is letting go of what you thought was real."

"If you can find a path with no obstacles, it probably doesn’t lead anywhere."

"Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea whatsoever."

"If someone wants to cheat. They will find a way, so never be foolish enough to think that you have them on lock."

"It’s better to cross the line and suffer the consequences than to just stare at that line for the rest of your life."

"Sometimes the bravest thing you can do is to admit that you are scared."


"Sometimes burning bridges isn’t a bad thing. It prevents you from going back to a place you should never have been to begin with."

"It’s hard to wait around for something you know might never happen, but it’s even harder to give up when you know it’s everything you want."

"Sometimes, when you give up on someone, it’s not because you don’t care anymore, but because you realize they don’t."

"If people judge you for your mistakes, just feel sorry for them, for simple minds are usually amused by simple things."

"Old habits die hard, but if you don’t kill some of them, they might kill you."

"When you tell the truth, you don’t have to remember anything."

"Sometimes to get what you want the most, you have to do what you want the least."

"Sometimes the promises you make to yourself are the hardest ones to keep."

"People are quick to judge, but slow to correct themselves."

"You never know how hard it is to let go, until letting go is your only choice."

"Always remember that just because you have feelings for someone, doesn’t mean that the person is obligated to feel the same."

"Being sad with the right people, is better than being happy with the wrong ones."

"Dreams aren’t those which you get while sleeping, but dreams are those, which don’t let you sleep till they are fulfilled."

"If you want something bad enough, you’ll fight for it, prove it, and keep fighting for it until the end."

"Sometimes the people who you thought you knew, start becoming the strangers you never wanted. All you see in front of you is a stranger with a known name."

"One of the worst things you can do in life is to never tell someone how you really feel about them."

"Love cannot be measured by how long you wait, its about how well you understand why you are waiting."

"Never say goodbye when you still want to try. Never give up when you can still take it. Never say you don’t love them when you can’t let go."
















"We can destroy what we have written, but we cannot unwrite it."

Remember that you and I made this journey, that we went together to a place where there was nowhere left to go."

How many times are you going to cast me aside, like I mean nothing to you? Better yet, how many times will I allow it?

"Certain kinds of knowledge rob people of their sleep."



Have you ever been in love?
I have. I wouldn’t recommend it.


"I wake up wanting you. I fall asleep wanting you. I watch a magnificent sunrise and can think only of sharing it with you. I glimpse a piece of amber and see your eyes… I’ve caught a disease, and the fever abates only when I’m near you."

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"I’m sick of following my dreams. I’m just going to ask them where they’re going and hook up with them later.

"You were unsure which pain is worse — the shock of what happened or the ache for what never will.

"Never apologize for showing feeling. When you do so, you apologize for the truth."

"If you hate a person, you hate something in him that is part of yourself. What isn’t part of ourselves doesn’t disturb us."

"When you breathe, you inhale and then you exhale. But every single time you do that, you’re a little different than the one before. We’re always changing and it’s important to know that there are some changes you can’t control but that there are others you can."

"I don’t want to die without any scars."

"I want you because there aren’t any good words for who you are. The only ones that come to mind are earnest, sad clichés like “amazing” and “magnetic” and “fascinating” and I don’t want to use them, but on the other hand they are the only words, and cliché or not they are honest words and I’m not sure consulting a thesaurus at this point would be genuine. And it’s not that I want you officially, like I want your last name or your Sunday mornings or your hard shiny promise, I just want to absorb you. I want to know what you know, want to hear your stories, want to filter through them gently and get lost in them, them and the soft hypnosis of your hands in my hair."

"You’ll miss the best things if you keep your eyes shut."

"Inside us there is something that has no name, that something is what we are."

"The difference between how you look and how you see yourself is enough to kill most people. And maybe the reason vampires don’t die is because they can never see themselves in photographs or mirrors."

"The highest and most beautiful things in life are not to be heard about, nor read about, nor seen but, if one will, are to be lived."


"Pewne rzeczy w życiu, nim jeszcze zdążymy się do nich przyzwyczaić, zmieniają się w czasie krótszym od jednego krzyku."


Il y a des sentiments qu'on ne peut exprimer avec des mots...

"You can’t blame someone for walking away if you didn’t do anything to make them stay."




"Don’t let your regrets speak louder than your dreams."
"Sometimes we can choose the paths we follow. Sometimes our choices are made for us. And sometimes we have no choice at all."

"Two things that hurt: When someone loves you but does not tell you, and when someone does not love you but keeps on telling you."

"Distance is just a test to see how far love can travel."


"Mirrors kill more people than guns do."

"Sometimes memories are the reasons why we can’t move on."

"Sometimes, when one person is missing, the whole world seems depopulated."

Forgive someone because you believe they are truly sorry, not just because you want to keep them in your life."

"As I’ve grown up, I’ve learned several things. Life is full of disappointments and people you trusted will sooner or later let you down. I’ve learned that often those you love will love someone else and there’s only one way to fall – fast and hard. I’ve learned that out of thousands of smiles, it takes one to touch your heart. I’ve found that words can be deceiving but the truth always lies in a person’s eyes. I’ve learned that everything can change in the blink of an eye and tears often come without invitation. I’ve learned crying can make us stronger and there’s never too much love to go around. I’ve learned that prejudice helps no one and that weapons don’t hurt people, people hurt people.

"Some people don’t like telling the truth; others don’t like hearing it."


"Love doesn’t hurt. Loving the wrong person does."

"Time doesn’t heal you when you’re not ready to move on."

"Cry as hard as you want to, but just make sure that when you’re finished, you never cry for the same reason again."

"Don’t let people living their nightmare tell you that you can’t live your dream."

"When you take a lot of time making a correct decision, just remember, even a correct decision becomes wrong when it’s taken too late."

"Words can hurt your feelings, but silence breaks your heart."

"If you don’t have the courage to get something, maybe you don’t deserve it from the first place."

"If you can’t stand the truth, you’ll fall for almost any lie."

"If we hate someone, someday we'll tell it without fear. If we love someone, we fear to tell. Strange but very true."

"Insecurity is an ugly thing, it makes you hate people you don’t even know."

"When you believe in something so much, it’s just hard to listen to others."




"Those who judge will never understand, and those who understand will never judge."

"Sometimes giving someone a second chance is like giving them an extra bullet for your gun, because they missed you the first time."


"What’s worse than losing someone you love? Losing yourself just for someone you love."

"The person changes, but the feelings are the same."

"Cry because it hurts. Laugh because it feels good. Fight because you believe. Run because you’re free. Smile because it happened. Love because you are loved. Feel because you can touch. Fly because you have wings. Believe because you can achieve."

"People, like the weather, are unpredictable. You might not like them today, but you could absolutely love them tomorrow."

"Stop breathing life into the past. It died for a reason. Let go and move on."

"For every lie you tell, the truth becomes more difficult to believe."

"The people who are heartless cared too much at one point."

"There are two kinds of memories: the ones you always want to remember and the ones you wish you could forget."

"Missing someone is a part of loving them. If you’re never apart, you’ll never really know how strong your love is."

"Life is not a problem to be solved, but a reality to be experienced."

"Dreams aren’t shattered, they’re abandoned."

"The more you hide your feelings, the more they show. The more you deny your feelings, the more they grow."

"Finding ‘love’ isn’t worth it if you have to lose yourself in the process."

"If you really love someone, even if there was a million reasons to leave, you would still look for the one reason to stay."

"Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don’t know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings.

"Anyone who thinks sitting in church can make you a Christian must also think that sitting in a garage can make you a car."

"If you were happy before you met someone, you can be happy after they’ve gone."



"Sometimes talking to an old friend makes you realize how much your life has changed."

"Silence has a deep explanation in every situation. It’s either you truly don’t care anymore or you’re pretending to be unaffected, but deeply hurt."


"Change what cannot be accepted and accept what cannot be changed."

"You can’t change where you’ve been but you can change where you’re going."

"Don’t love with your eyes what you can’t feel with your heart."

"It’s hard to watch people change but it’s even harder to remember who they used to be."


"Sometimes it’s better to suffer now and smile in the end than to fake a smile now and continue to suffer forever."

"Sometimes you have to find yourself before you search for someone else."

"What you see and what I see, may not always be what everyone else sees."

"If you’re going to hide your feelings, remember where you put them."

Change is a funny thing. We never are quite sure what we are becoming or even why. Then one day we look at ourselves and wonder who we are and how we got that way. Only one thing about change remains constant, it is always painful."

"Don’t let your happiness depend on something you may lose."

"Don’t let the past tell you the future."

"Impossible only means that you haven’t found the solution yet."

"The more difficult it is to reach your destination, the more you’ll remember the journey."

"When you photograph people in color, you photograph their clothes. But when you photograph people in B&W, you photograph their souls."

"Sometimes a picture speaks a thousand words and other times, a word brings in mind a thousand pictures."

You never know how strong you are until you dare to let go of something you think you can’t live without."

"Let your dreams be bigger than your fears, your actions louder than your words, and your faith stronger than your feelings."

"It’s like you’re screaming, and no one can hear. You almost feel ashamed that someone could be that important, that without them, you feel like nothing. No one will ever understand how much it hurts. You feel hopeless; like nothing can save you, and when it’s over and it’s gone, you almost wish that you could have all that bad stuff back so that you could have the good."

"For everything you have missed, you have gained something else, and for everything you gain, you lose something else."

We live in a world built on promises, constructed by liars; where the people will do anything to fuel their selfish desires."

"Sometimes it’s hard to give up a memory because it’s all you have left of a person."

Life doesn’t hurt, until you think about how much things have changed, who you’ve lost along the way, and how much of it was your fault."


"If you don’t fight for what you want, don’t cry for what you lose."


"Never let your dreams become wasted on another person’s promise."


"Just because you miss someone, doesn’t mean you need them back in your life. Missing is just a part of moving on."

"Don’t judge someone’s choices without first knowing their reason."

"Feelings don’t just ‘go away’. You either have them forever, or you never had them at all."


"Sometimes the questions are complicated and the answers are simple."

"Those who think they have all of the answers are not taking the same test as the rest of us."


I WANT YOU

I can’t help it – I want you because I don’t know how to not want you. I don’t like not knowing how to do things but incidentally no one has any helpful advice. Sometimes I wish I could just remove the want, extract it, but I get the feeling the want is not one of those things you can readily extract, like rotten teeth or slow-moving venom. The want is undulating somewhere in the ether. I tell myself I shouldn’t want you because you’re not mine, and I can understand all the sensible and convincing reasons I shouldn’t, but when it comes to the actual practice of not wanting you, something falls off that table of logic and splatters unceremoniously all over the floor.


I try to train myself to pass your name through my head neutral like everyone else’s but when I hear someone say it, or when I say it to myself like I do, my heart forgets what it’s doing and starts to pound in double bass, and it’s equal parts exciting and squirmy-uncomfortable, a lot like being somewhere uptight in the daytime but also being on drugs.
Everyone says that time is the answer but I honestly feel like time makes it worse.

I want you because I know you can make me forget about time.
I want you because you and I, the thought of you and I. Those letters forming those words, those words sticking together, the jellyfish swell and shrink in my chest when I think about what they mean. You and I could be something together, that’s why I want you. Something that’s made of us and also isn’t, something different, the way hydrogen and oxygen are indistinguishable in a molecule of water. And I know we can’t be anything, I know that, but when has knowing anything stopped me from feeling it? Knowing better stopped me from wanting it?
And I want you because I can’t have you: I want you so bad sometimes I don’t want you at all because I know that having you, keeping you would change you into something else, something neither of us ever want you to be. You’re not that type. Some moments I wish you were, for my own selfish and transient reasons, but then I know it wouldn’t be you anymore so I stop wishing. The truth is, I want you as you are, but I’m scared of wanting you like that because if I happen to slip, if I lose my footing, if I slip and spiral down the twisted tunnel of possibility and grab onto you too tightly, I know you’ll fold in on yourself and disappear without a memory; wither and blacken in my hands like fresh radium that disintegrates instantly when exposed to air.

"You lose yourself trying to hold on to someone who doesn’t care about losing you."

"Millions of people have decided not to be sensitive. They have grown thick skins around themselves just to avoid being hurt by anybody. But it is at great cost. Nobody can hurt them, but nobody can make them happy either."


“Some people don’t understand the promises they’re making when they make them,” I said.
“Right, of course. But you keep the promise anyway. That’s what love is. Love is keeping the promise anyway.”

That was one of the saddest things about people—their most important thoughts and feelings often went unspoken and barely understood.

The deepest feeling always shows itself in silence.


“Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great.

“If you don’t know where you are going, any road will get you there.”

“It never gets easier, missing you. And sometimes I wonder if it ever will.”

“You can’t force love, I realized. It’s there or it isn’t. If it’s not there, you’ve got to be able to admit it. If it is there, you’ve got to do whatever it takes to protect the ones you love.”

“I think I love him, but I also think that you can love people who aren’t good for you.”




“Never tell the truth to people who are not worthy of it.”



“We delight in the beauty of the butterfly, but rarely admit the changes it has gone through to achieve that beauty.”







“You must make a decision that you are going to move on. It won’t happen automatically. You will have to rise up and say, ‘I don’t care how hard this is, I don’t care how disappointed I am, I’m not going to let this get the best of me. I’m moving on with my life.’”

"I missed him. Love, I realized, was something your spine memorized. There was nothing you could do about that."


I can’t even fake it anymore.

Worse things have happened. I will survive.







"Some people come into your life just to teach you how to let go."

I woke up to the clamor of your absence.
You have the exact kind of life that I have always dreamed of but never wanted.
I’m collecting words to keep you, forever after you have left.
"Once you’ve accepted your flaws no one can use them against you."

I still look at your pictures every night, like a bedtime storybook - as if to sweep the stage of my dreams, preparing for you to make an appearance.

"If you are always trying to be normal you will never know how amazing you can be."

"If it’s still in your mind, it is worth taking the risk."

"Sad thing is, you can still love someone and be wrong for them."

"Hope, it is the only thing stronger than fear."

n some quiet moments I sit here and wonder if you, too, have them, and if you, too, sit there and look at your phone, then your hands, then take a deep breath and turn away for the world to resume. But then again, I also know that we are not as alike as I thought we were.
Sometimes, time does not tell, only heal.
"Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans."
"If you don’t build your dream, someone will hire you to help you build theirs."

Even if I accumulated all the words of all the languages, they would still not be enough to express how much I miss you.
Soon we will have to face the choice between what is right and what is easy.
"If it scares you, it might be a good thing to try."
"When you lose someone, it stays with you, always reminding you of how easy it is to get hurt."
"Those who don’t remember the past, might as well forget about the future."

"You don’t realize how much you love someone until you see them go."

"In life you meet two kinds of people. Ones who build you up, and ones who tear you down. But in the end, you will thank them both."
"Life is all about change. Sometimes it’s painful. Sometimes it’s beautiful. But most of the time, it’s both."
"Sometimes life isn’t about meeting new people; it’s about meeting the people you already know halfway."
"Don’t give up on someone you love, because you may be all they have."


"Dreams are always crushing when they don’t come true. But it’s the simple dreams that are often the most painful because they seem so personal, so reasonable, so attainable. You’re always close enough to touch, but never quite close enough to hold and it’s enough to break your heart."

"When someone hurts you enough, you become afraid that everyone else is going to do the same."

Life doesn’t always introduce you to the people you want to meet. Sometimes life puts you in touch with the people you need to meet – to help you, to hurt you, to leave you, to love you, and to gradually strengthen you into the person you were meant to become."

"Sometimes you have to forget how you feel about someone at the moment, and remember the moment you first fell for them."

"It’s hard to explain something to a person who doesn’t want to understand."

"The reason most people don’t find what they’re looking for is because they have no idea what it is."
"You can try to forget what happened, but you can never forget what you felt."

"They don’t miss you when you’re gone, they miss you when you move on."

"You wear a mask for so long, you forget who you were beneath it."

"Searching for the truth is easy but accepting the truth is hard."

"Sometimes tears will speak the words that we can’t find."

"If you do something for the right reason, nothing can stop you."

Two people don’t fall in love because they sleep in the same bed, but because they share the same dreams."

"Sometimes we learn something new about the past that changes everything we know about the present."

"You can look at a picture for a week and never think of it again. You can also look at a picture for a second and think of it all your life."

"Sometimes silence is the best way to let someone know they did you wrong."





If something we never knew we had disappears, do we miss it?


 W stałym oczekiwaniu na "jutro" najgorsze jest to, że nagle może się okazać, że jutro jest już za późno.

“Uciekanie od problemów, to wyścig, którego nie wygrasz nigdy.”

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Czasem kogoś potrzebujesz, czasem nawet wiesz kogo konkretnie, czasem przypominasz sobie, że nie masz prawa potrzebować tej osoby.


“Chciałabym, żeby kiedyś zdał sobie sprawę, że mógł mnie mieć, a nie miał. Żeby żałował, że ja wyciągałam do niego rękę, a on jej nie dostrzegł. Chciałabym żeby kiedyś miał świadomość tego, że stracił coś bardzo cennego.”

Wspomnienia pomagają nam przetrwać. Zapomnienie czasem chroni nas od obłędu. Przeżyliśmy tragedię. Może lepiej nie pamiętać?

Myślę, że większość ludzi po prostu potrzebuje złudzeń tak samo jak powietrza do oddychania. Życiowy realizm jest ciężarem nie do udźwignięcia.

A ja? Ja poczekam jeszcze na swoją miłość. Może przyjedzie następnym pociągiem? Albo jeszcze późniejszym? A może nie przyjedzie wcale? Nie szkodzi, mam już wprawę w oczekiwaniu na pociągi, które nie przywożą nikogo.


Reżyser nie wpada, oświetlenie się nie zmienia, kiepski scenariusz trwa nadal.

Widzę jedno twoje zdjęcie i nagle wszystko mnie boli, oczy zaczynają łzawić, serce też płacze.

Kto powiedział, że noc jest od spania? Nie, nie, proszę państwa, noc jest właśnie od niszczenia sobie życia. Od analiz, tego co było już i tak zanalizowane milion razy. Od wymyślania dialogów, na które i tak nigdy się nie odważymy. Noc jest od tworzenia wielkich planów, których i tak nie będziemy pamiętać rano. Noc jest od bólu głowy do mdłości, od wyśnionych miłości.