closing the 20 tabs you used for a finished essay = euphoric calmness
You ever been so disappointed in someone that you forgive them and don’t say anything, but in your head you detach yourself from them completely
I hope someday the timing is right
The moment I start to feel under appreciated I distance myself. I don’t care to be anything to anyone who doesn’t crave me. I don’t want to be anywhere that I’m not missed every time my presence is missing…'
Boys with gentle hearts and strong hands. Those are the boys you wanna marry.
Jaki był najlepszy moment w twoim życiu?
'I met you.
I stopped looking for more.'
too busy watering my own grass to check if yours is greener
A man that wants you will make time for you. Always.
the holy trinity: beauty of the mind, richness of the spirit, tenderness of the heart.
Women aren’t picking the wrong men. Lots of y'all men are manipulative and show your true colors when you can’t get what you want.
MOOD: I need to detox all my bad habits, exfoliate my skin, deep condition my hair, a new set of nails and a pedicure.
if you have to keep guessing where you stand with someone, move on. not knowing is knowing.
Delete their number and drink plenty of water, watch your skin clear up
Stop worrying what other people think. Your skin will clear up
the strongest ones bleed in silence. have no one applauding their growth. have no one watching their healing process. they bloom in silence
there are poems inside you, that belong to your parents, old friends, and ex lovers. don’t carry around old chapters. write yourself anew.
When other people treat you poorly, keep being you. Don’t ever let someone else’s bitterness change the person you are.
There’s something beautiful about keeping certain aspects of your life hidden. Maybe people and clouds are beautiful because you can’t see everything
Don’t miss out on something that could be amazing just because it could also be difficult.
Experience is the biggest source of knowledge
You know when you clean your face really well and exfoliate and stuff and your face feels ten pounds lighter and clean and kind of raw, that’s how I want my heart to feel
Being a good person is a choice. Don’t let people fool you into believing that truly good people never have bad thoughts, are never tempted by the easier path, by the low road, never mess up or act out selfishly. Never believe a person can be good without making a conscious effort.
Every single time you do something good, you’ve made a decision to make the world a little brighter.
Goodness is not an inherent trait, it is a choice. Keep making it! I see you, I’m proud of you, and I’m rooting for you!
my life is basically just a constant cycle of finally getting past the thing i was stressing about and then immediately finding something else to stress me out even if it isn’t happening for another 4 months
zdjęcie: dziewczyna z nożem i podpisem na ściane she cuts her life in pieces
What I want is for the two of us to meet somewhere by chance one day, like, passing on the street, or getting on the same bus.'
'It takes courage to grow up and become who you really are.
The most dangerous person is the one who listens, thinks and observes.
Just because you don’t look like somebody who you think is attractive doesn’t mean you aren’t attractive. Flowers are pretty, but so are sunsets and they look nothing alike
1. Get more sleep
2. Drink more water
3. Get more exercise
4. Read more
5. Get more organized
6. Clean more often
7. Explore more
8. Relax more
9. Have more patience
10. Be happy
- True Love - Loving is my favorite thing to do in life. I like to make others happy and I like to look at someone who looks back at me, seeing who I am. Ya know, like really looking into you. This is being truly connected.
- Passion - This hits on love to some degree, but you can find passion in all facets of life, like your work, your friends, etc. It’s the passion-filled pieces in life that make it worth living.
- Meaningful Conversations - These help you feel understood. You need to be understood in life. You need to be around those that see you for who you are and care about what’s going on inside your head. Being misunderstood is very lonely.
- Honesty - This is how you tap into everything on this list. Be honest with what makes you happy and what makes you sad, who you like and who drains you. We often let friends and family tell us who we are and though they want what is best for us and know who we are pretty well, at the end of the day, no one knows you better than you know you.
- Self Care - The best way to add good into this world is to be the best version of yourself. Making sure you are taking care of yourself is the best thing you can do for this world, because it adds happy.
do i have a crush on you or am i just lonely
do i like you or do i like that you like me
do I like you or do I like the idea of you
do i want to be in a relationship or do i just want to prove that i’m worthy of one
do girls really mature faster? or do we just excuse boys’ immaturity longer?
A relationship with no gender roles. We both hustle, we both cook, we both clean, we both pay, we both spoil each other.
shout out to the girls who don’t fully love themselves yet. take ya time hun it’s all about you.
me at school: when i get home im gonna be productive’
me at home: good nite
& i never want to have to beg for anyone’s time again in my life.
self care: deleting people you don’t fuck with anymore off all social media
tELL PEOPLE HOW YOU FEEL BEFORE ITS TOO LATE I AM BEGGING YOU. UNSAID FEELINGS ARE THE FUCKIN WORST AND THEY WILL KILL YOU, COMPLETELY EAT YOU UP INSIDE AND MAKE YOU ROT AWAY. YOU GOTTA TELL PEOPLE HOW YOU FEEL, RIGHT NOW, RIGHT WHEN IT HAPPENS. TELL THEM YOU LOVE THEM, TELL THEM YOU WANNA MAKE THEM HAPPY, TELL THEM YOU MISS THEM, TELL THEM YOU DONT LIKE HOW THEY TREAT YOU, TELL THEM YOU FEEL SAD AND NEED HELP. PEOPLE WANT TO HEAR WHAT YOU SAY EVEN IF IT HURTS A LITTLE AT FIRST. HONESTY IS REAL AND BEAUTIFUL AND FEELINGS THAT ARE SAID AND ACKNOWLEDGED EVEN IF THEYRE UNREQUITED ARE FUCKING RAW AND BEAUTIFUL AND HEY, AT LEAST YOU GOT IT OFF YOUR CHEST. SO PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE BE HONEST WITH HOW YOU FEEL. LIFE IS FAR TOO SHORT TO HIDE BEHIND THE FEAR OF SOMEONE BEING MAD OR NOT FEELING THE SAME WAY. I PROMISE YOU. LIFE IS NOTHING WITHOUT THE SMALL RISKS OF SAYING HOW YOU FEEL. SO GO DO IT. SAY IT. I PROMISE ITLL BE WORTH IT. YOULL SEE.
'Nobody can avoid falling in love. They might want to deny it, but friendship is probably the most common form of love.'
night time is for listening to really good music, warm showers and impulse texting the person you like
i love it when things stop bothering you. like two months ago i was totally bitter about so many things and now im like “u know what i don’t even care” & that’s a beautiful feeling
i need to get a real job so i can stop crying over expensive lingerie and start crying in expensive lingerie
got a broken heart?? put it in rice
złamałaś sobie serce? włóż je do miski z ryżem
eat more fruit
drink more water
get more sleep
go outside more
'Two things to remember in life: Take care of your thoughts when you are alone, and take care of your words when you are with people.'
5 reasons to smile
- someone out there cares a lot about you
- you have a million chances to reinvent yourself
- the sun will always rise even after the worst nights
- there are so many things for you to see
- there are so many things to fall in love with
It’s okay if people are moving at a different pace than you; life is not a race.
'The emotion that can break your heart is sometimes the very one that heals it.'
“If, then, I were asked for the most important advice I could give, that which I considered to be the most useful to the men of our century, I should simply say: in the name of God, stop a moment, cease your work, look around you.
Totally cool: “Hey, do you want to be exclusive?”
Red flag: “No one but me is allowed to touch you.”
Totally cool: “It makes me feel weird when you flirt with other people, can we talk about that?”
Red flag: “If you loved me, you would stop being friends with them. You KNOW it makes me jealous.”
Totally cool: “I hope we’re together forever. I’m so in this for the long haul.”
Red flag: “If you ever left me, I would kill myself.”
Totally cool: “Your mom is really unkind to me, can we try to minimize how often you bring me when you visit her?”
Red flag: “Your mom hates me, you need to stop talking to her. She’s trying to ruin our relationship.”
Totally cool: “I love you so much, oh my god.”
Red flag: “It’s a good thing I love you so much, because no one else would. You’d be alone forever without me.”
Other important red flags to keep in mind: someone who wants to jump into emotional/financial co-dependence very fast (like moving in together right away, or becoming each other’s only confidantes right away) and won’t take no for an answer; someone who tries to minimize how often you leave the house or interact with other people; someone who threatens you or themselves or your family or pets or possessions or financial future; someone who uses guilt to keep you from leaving a relationship.
Very important reminder: You do not need a reason to leave a relationship. Neither does the other person (or people). A relationship is over when one of the people in it says it’s over, period. Obviously it’s kind to take the end of a long relationship seriously, but abusers and manipulators have lost the right to that conversation. Lie if you need to–your safety is much more important than their feelings.
Trust your instincts!
really wanna fall in love but mostly with myself
Things I am always down for no questions asked:
-Breakfast for dinner
-Hot coffee and good conversation
"Your vibe makes you attractive"
I reserve the right to not talk to people and enjoy silence, I reserve the right to pick and choose who I give my time to.
It's so attractive when a man is good with children, lol impregnate me
Just to make you smile that's the motive
Whatever I'm getting, everything in life, it's for who I love, I grow, you grow, I go upwards, you come with me, you're down, I pick you up
My crush initiated conversation with me by saying I look nice and I suddenly realised I can walk on water and part the sea
Let's go for breakfast somewhere new, one of those quaint spots with books and plants in strange places
Filling my days with things to do that make me happy
I love seeing women flourish, doing their own thing and fucking owning it, it's inspirational
If somebody is willing to unlearn, and learn, to open their mind, to question the way they think, that's admirable.
I think my heart knows how to smile, I can feel it sometimes.