WHY am I the type of person that still believes someone’s a good person even when they’ve shown me in every way that they’re not …
Kiss me in public. Put your arm around me so people know I’m with you. Call me babe in front of our waiter. Pull me in because I’m just not quite close enough to you. Make me watch that one tv show that’s your guilty pleasure. Tell me your biggest fear and I’ll promise to protect you. Kiss me at red lights because if you don’t then I’ll kiss you. Show me the one song you can never listen to without crying. Don’t hide the tiny details about you. Because I’ll remember every one of them.
“I’m not ignoring you intentionally I just have no motivation to respond the way that I feel you deserve” - a novel by me.
Date someone who fucking respects you
how do i have zero expectations and still get my feelings hurt
Never miss anyone from the past cause they’re in the past for a reason
where’s my oscar for acting like i’m not falling apart
you ever fell in love with somebody like 5 times? like damn, I thought I loved you before but wtf is this next level shit
People act like its so hard to be loyal to one person and its really not
When I was younger I thought it was cool that Harry Potter could talk to snakes. Then I realized I’ve been doing the same for years
I have two moods:
- constant panic and worrying about every little detail
- yolo
HOW HE TREATS YOU IS HOW HE FEELS ABOUT YOU. DONT TRY TO DECODE IT OR MAKE EXCUSES ITS SIMPLE. IF HE ACTS LIKE HE DOESNT CARE, HE DOESNT CARE.
Those deep conversations you skip sleep for
I fall in love with details.”
Nobody is ever too busy. You’re just not a priority.
I am changing. I am growing. I am becoming better
Nights with you, mornings with you, everything with you
my friend’s four-year-old son wouldn’t go to sleep because he wanted to keep looking at the stars and she tried to bribe him with a piece of chocolate and he just said “would you rather get a reward or be happy” and turned back to the window
me to me: don’t worry baby
Save your heart for someone who cares
It had been a perfect fit, but perfection can be an illusion
Spoiling your girl doesn’t mean you need to constantly spend hundreds of dollars on her. It doesn’t mean you need to buy her the top of the line technology or clothes or concert tickets. It doesn’t mean you have to pay for fancy vacations for the two of you. Spoiling your girl can be as easy as picking flowers for her while you take a walk or leaving her a note about how much you adore her. It can be waking up a little early to make her breakfast in bed or rubbing her feet after she’s been at work all day. It can be spending a day watching her favorite movies or letting her pick all the songs during a car ride. Spoiling your girl doesn’t have to be with money but with love
For every person you forgive, you heal a wound of your own
Be with someone whose eyes can show you how much they love you, without a single spoken word.
“It’s better to have nobody than someone who is half there, or who doesn’t want to be there.
Notice all the people who make an effort to stay in your life.” They're keepers.
as you get older, you realize that you’re not always right and there’s so many things you could’ve handled better, so many situations where you could’ve been kinder and all you can really do is forgive yourself and let your mistakes make you a better person
Sometimes you just need to hear how much you mean to someone
I hate how addicted I get to anything that makes me feel anything
Sometimes you have to take time to focus on yourself
Don’t shorten your words, I like your details
can we all come together and agree that the saying “no one can truly love you until you love yourself” is trash. loving yourself takes time, and it isn’t always easy. Know that there are people out there who love you, even when you struggle to.
“Sometimes you have to unfollow people in real life.”
I fell in love with the way she challenged my mind and nurtured my soul.
many don’t appreciate you, until they see someone else appreciating you
My wife and I were cooking dinner together and when we sat down to eat she said, “You know what I like about you?” and so I obviously asked her what and she was like “With you, every night feels like Friday,” and it was so fucking cute. Why is she so nice to me
Don’t get me wrong, sex is great, but I would rather spend the night learning everything about you and hearing every story you have. To me, that’s far more intimate.
Look at her like she’s the only one you see.
it really sucks when the person you want to be around, isn’t around
do you ever see a photograph of someone really attractive from like the 1800s and you suddenly get pissed because they’ve been dead for like 200 years and you probably don’t have a chance with them
lgbt actually means lasagne, gnocchi, buccatini and tortellini
acoustic cover of me crying
Are you scared? Or are you not ready? There is a difference.”
Nobody is ever too busy. You’re just not a priority.
- Winnie the Pooh: Sometimes, the smallest things take up the most room in your heart.
please god protect me from ever getting married to some secretly misogynistic immature piece of shit
Cheating in a relationship is the dumbest thing you could ever do. If you’re not happy. Just leave.”
I’ve been hurt, but I’ll be okay. I’ve been lied to, but I’ll trust again. I’ve been heartbroken, but I can still love
You need someone that loves your soul more than your body.
I can’t promise to fix all your problems, but I can promise you won’t face them alone.”
When you meet the right person, you know it. You can’t stop thinking about them. They are your best friend, and your soulmate. You can’t wait to spend the rest of your life with them. No one and nothing else can compare
- a stable job that i love
- enough money to live comfortably and travel
- a fulfulling relationship
największe życiowe rozczarowanie: śniadanie u tiffaniego to nie jest film kulinarny
God, forgive me if I asked you more than I thanked you.
Can we go back to sending love letters
i wish i had a home somewhere in northern italy where i can spend my summers reading books, biking through the country, and eating fresh fruit all day
On a scale of cuddles to rough sex I need everything on the fucking scale
I’m constantly ignoring the truth to be temporarily happy. It has become a real problem for me recently. A word of advice: some things will never change, no matter how much you want them to. So just drop it, whatever is holding you back. Go out there and do something else, find something else. There’s always more. I’m going to go find more
You’re important to me. I think if there’s anything that will last forever, it’s that. Whether we separate, stay in touch or rarely speak again, you will always be that little someone I really do care for, that I would sacrifice everything for to protect and keep safe.
She was one of those girls who breathed fire when confronted but loved so gently that it made you forget she could.
“Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.”
— from Touch
Do not worry that your life is turning upside down. How do you know that the side you are used to is better than the one to come?
Stay single until someone actually complements your life in a way that makes it better not to be single. If not, it’s not worth it.
I promise you nothing is as chaotic as it seems. Nothing is worth your health. Nothing is worth poisoning yourself into stress, anxiety and fear.
If you ignore your feelings they will get your attention in other ways
Not everyone is healthy enough to have a front row seat in our lives. There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance
8 Tips for Having a Low Stress Life
1. Simplify – your time, your stuff, your social life.
2. Live in the moment.
3. Practice gratitude.
4. Take control of the thoughts that pull you back into the past.
5. Stop the anxious thoughts about “what next”, and of your future.
6. Practice getting comfortable with saying “no”.
7. Don’t worry about others, and what they think of you.
8. Do your best, then relax, and avoid perfectionism.
I can tell a lot about a person by what they choose to see in me
She loves deeply, regardless of the love she gets in return, and it is both her greatest strength and her biggest weakness
The problem was she wanted to be loved so badly she couldn’t tell it wasn’t love
Finding your passion isn’t just about careers and money. It’s about finding your authentic self - the one you’ve buried beneath other people’s needs
Maybe the problem with love these days is that someone says they love you, and you just wonder how long for.
Today, take time to think of all you are instead of all you are not
Introverts may have strong social skills and enjoy parties and business meetings, but after a while wish they were home in their pajamas. They prefer to devote their social energies to close friends, colleagues, and family. They listen more than they talk, think before they speak, and often feel as if they express themselves better in writing than in conversation. They tend to dislike conflict. Many have a horror of small talk, but enjoy deep discussions.
Promise yourself to be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind
You deserve a relationship with someone who never has you guessing where you stand with them
I’m slowly learning that some people aren’t good for me, no matter how much I love them.
Your ambition should be to get as much life out of living as you possibly can – as much enjoyment, as much interest, as much experience, as much understanding. And not to simply be what is generally called a “success”.
There’s a difference between loving the idea of someone and loving the person they really are.
The moment you feel like you have to prove your worth to someone is the moment you absolutely and utterly have to walk away
me filing for divorce: idk we just don’t vibe
Oddly private about things that don’t exactly demand secrecy
love can really save people, and i’m not talking about romantic love. i’m talking about platonic, wholesome, unselfish love that demands nothing in return other than that person’s safety, happiness, and well-being. love for the sake of love. i think this kind of love is wonderful
Friendly reminder to drink more water and let go of more bullshit
After women, flowers are the most divine creations.” —Christian Dior
innocent looking girls that are secretly kinky as fuck are girls worth living for
One of the most amazing things that can happen is finding someone who sees everything you are and won’t let you be anything less. They see the potential of you. They see endless possibilities. And through their eyes, you start to see yourself the same way. As someone who matters. As someone who can make a difference in this world.
Ancient Egyptians had fifty words for sand & the Eskimos had a hundred words for snow. I wish I had a thousand words for love, but all that comes to mind is the way you move against me while you sleep & there are no words for that.
You can go wherever you want and do whatever you feel like doing. But what makes a place special, are the people who live in it.
We can’t help who we love. Love isn’t logical, or even our choice. Love chooses us.
the worst thing about love is
i remember it.
The ones who notice the storms in your eyes, the silence in your voice and the heaviness in your heart are the ones you need to let in.
Sometimes I don’t
believe I exist until someone calls me beautiful. Sometimes
any warm thing will do. Sometimes it’s me, a warm thing in the low
light. Beautiful is what the man called me after he did
what he wanted with — I’m running out of ways to describe it
— my body, my silence. Beautiful.
Your silence furnishes a dark house
There was so much to lose
even before I knew
what it meant to choose.
there’s a future version of me who’s proud I was strong enough
"talk about" is a lot cuter than ask me
2) speak gently with a full heart.
3) be perceptive of others’ trauma, daily struggles, disabilities, and insecurities.
4) treat animals with tender respect.
5) don’t act out irrationaly towards the people you love. before you lash out, think about the consequences towards their feelings that would follow.
6) always remember that the positive energy you put out will come back to you.
Please, keep looking. Not for a person, but for your passion, your love, your courage, your goals, your dreams, your happiness, yourself. Keep looking. Explore yourself before you explore another. Know your worth, know yourself. Only then will you know what you need over what you want. You need yourself to become your own.
Do not mistake temptation for opportunity
I will never be ashamed of the way I love. I love wholeheartedly and passionately and that is a good thing. I will not change my free and forgiving heart because of past circumstances. I will not punish myself for my openness and willingness to love others. I will not apologize for how I love.
being nice and being kind are two different concepts i think ‘niceness’ to me is very performative and feels like a way to keep ppl in their place and following shitty cultural norms aka ‘he likes u just be nice to him give him a chance!’ whereas kindness is rooted in empathy and respect for ur fellow human it requires action kindness and justice are linked.
Steven Hawking‘s life proves what we should all know to be true: that intelligence without compassion is meaningless, and that every person who is truly intelligent knows caring deeply for others is the smartest choice a person can make
modern day romance is being considerate enough to tell me that you won’t be able to respond to my texts/calls because you’re busy with your own shit. and in return i appreciate that consideration and leave you to your own personal affairs because we’re two people in a relationship with our own seperate lives. cute.
When life sucks, throw yourself into art.”
It is true when you are by yourself and you think about life, it is always sad. All that excitement and so on has a way of suddenly leaving you, and it’s as though, in the silence, somebody called your name, and you heard your name for the first time.”
I feel very small. I don’t understand. I have so
much courage, fire, energy, for many things, yet I get so hurt, so wounded by small things.
I’m constantly ignoring the truth to be temporarily happy. It has become a real problem for me recently. A word of advice: some things will never change, no matter how much you want them to. So just drop it, whatever is holding you back. Go out there and do something else, find something else. There’s always more. I’m going to go find more
You’re important to me. I think if there’s anything that will last forever, it’s that. Whether we separate, stay in touch or rarely speak again, you will always be that little someone I really do care for, that I would sacrifice everything for to protect and keep safe.
She was one of those girls who breathed fire when confronted but loved so gently that it made you forget she could.
“Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared.”
“If two points are destined to touch, the universe will always find a way to make the connection - even when all hope seems to be lost. Certain ties cannot be broken. They define who we are - and who we can become. Across space, across time, among paths we cannot predict - nature always finds a way.”
— from Touch
Do not worry that your life is turning upside down. How do you know that the side you are used to is better than the one to come?
Stay single until someone actually complements your life in a way that makes it better not to be single. If not, it’s not worth it.
I promise you nothing is as chaotic as it seems. Nothing is worth your health. Nothing is worth poisoning yourself into stress, anxiety and fear.
If you ignore your feelings they will get your attention in other ways
Not everyone is healthy enough to have a front row seat in our lives. There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance
8 Tips for Having a Low Stress Life
1. Simplify – your time, your stuff, your social life.
2. Live in the moment.
3. Practice gratitude.
4. Take control of the thoughts that pull you back into the past.
5. Stop the anxious thoughts about “what next”, and of your future.
6. Practice getting comfortable with saying “no”.
7. Don’t worry about others, and what they think of you.
8. Do your best, then relax, and avoid perfectionism.
I can tell a lot about a person by what they choose to see in me
She loves deeply, regardless of the love she gets in return, and it is both her greatest strength and her biggest weakness
The problem was she wanted to be loved so badly she couldn’t tell it wasn’t love
Finding your passion isn’t just about careers and money. It’s about finding your authentic self - the one you’ve buried beneath other people’s needs
Maybe the problem with love these days is that someone says they love you, and you just wonder how long for.
Today, take time to think of all you are instead of all you are not
Introverts may have strong social skills and enjoy parties and business meetings, but after a while wish they were home in their pajamas. They prefer to devote their social energies to close friends, colleagues, and family. They listen more than they talk, think before they speak, and often feel as if they express themselves better in writing than in conversation. They tend to dislike conflict. Many have a horror of small talk, but enjoy deep discussions.
Promise yourself to be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind
You deserve a relationship with someone who never has you guessing where you stand with them
I’m slowly learning that some people aren’t good for me, no matter how much I love them.
Your ambition should be to get as much life out of living as you possibly can – as much enjoyment, as much interest, as much experience, as much understanding. And not to simply be what is generally called a “success”.
There’s a difference between loving the idea of someone and loving the person they really are.
The moment you feel like you have to prove your worth to someone is the moment you absolutely and utterly have to walk away
me filing for divorce: idk we just don’t vibe
Oddly private about things that don’t exactly demand secrecy
love can really save people, and i’m not talking about romantic love. i’m talking about platonic, wholesome, unselfish love that demands nothing in return other than that person’s safety, happiness, and well-being. love for the sake of love. i think this kind of love is wonderful
Friendly reminder to drink more water and let go of more bullshit
After women, flowers are the most divine creations.” —Christian Dior
I think that we live or die under the tyranny of perfection. Socially, we are pushed towards being perfect. Physically, beautiful to conform to standards that are cruel and uncommon, to behave and lead our lives in a certain way, to demonstrate to the world that we are happy and healthy and all full of sunshine. We are told to always smile and never sweat, by multiple commercials of shampoo or beer.
And I feel that the most achievable goal of our lives is to have the freedom that imperfection gives us.
And there is no better patron saint of imperfection than a monster.
We will try really hard to be angels, but I think that a balanced, sane life is to accept the monstrosity in ourselves and others as part of what being human is. Imperfection, the acceptance of imperfection, leads to tolerance and liberates us from social models that I find horrible and oppressive.
innocent looking girls that are secretly kinky as fuck are girls worth living for
One of the most amazing things that can happen is finding someone who sees everything you are and won’t let you be anything less. They see the potential of you. They see endless possibilities. And through their eyes, you start to see yourself the same way. As someone who matters. As someone who can make a difference in this world.
Ancient Egyptians had fifty words for sand & the Eskimos had a hundred words for snow. I wish I had a thousand words for love, but all that comes to mind is the way you move against me while you sleep & there are no words for that.
You can go wherever you want and do whatever you feel like doing. But what makes a place special, are the people who live in it.
We can’t help who we love. Love isn’t logical, or even our choice. Love chooses us.
the worst thing about love is
i remember it.
The ones who notice the storms in your eyes, the silence in your voice and the heaviness in your heart are the ones you need to let in.
Sometimes I don’t
believe I exist until someone calls me beautiful. Sometimes
any warm thing will do. Sometimes it’s me, a warm thing in the low
light. Beautiful is what the man called me after he did
what he wanted with — I’m running out of ways to describe it
— my body, my silence. Beautiful.
Your silence furnishes a dark house
There was so much to lose
even before I knew
what it meant to choose.
there’s a future version of me who’s proud I was strong enough
"talk about" is a lot cuter than ask me
1: Talk about the first time you watched your favorite movie.
2: Talk about your first kiss.
3: Talk about the person you've had the most intense romantic feelings for.
4: Talk about the thing you regret most so far.
5: Talk about the best birthday you've had.
6: Talk about the worst birthday you've had.
7: Talk about your biggest insecurity.
8: Talk about the thing you are most proud of.
9: Talk about little things on your body that you like the most.
10: Talk about the biggest fight you've ever had.
11: Talk about the best dream you've ever had.
12: Talk about the worst dream you've ever had.
13: Talk about the first time you had sex/how you imagine your first time.
14: Talk about a vacation.
15: Talk about the time you were most content in life.
16: Talk about the best party you've ever been to.
17: Talk about someone you want to be friends with.
18: Talk about something that happened in elementary school.
19: Talk about something that happened in middle school.
20: Talk about something that happened in high school.
21: Talk about a time you had to turn someone down.
22: Talk about your worst fear.
23: Talk about a time someone turned you down.
24: Talk about something someone told you that meant a lot.
25: Talk about an ex-best friend.
26: Talk about things you do when you're sick.
27: Talk about your favorite part of someone else's body.
28: Talk about your fetishes.
29: Talk about what turns you on.
30: Talk about what turns you off.
31: Talk about what you think death is like.
32: Talk about a place you remember from your childhood.
33: Talk about what you do when you are sad.
34: Talk about the worst physical pain you've endured.
35: Talk about things you wish you could stop doing.
36: Talk about your guilty pleasures.
37: Talk about someone you thought you were in love with.
38: Talk about songs that remind you of certain people.
39: Talk about things you wish you'd known earlier.
40: Talk about the end of something in your life.<
tips for how to live a kind life
1) don’t say mean things about people, behind their backs or to their face. it’s not cool to be inconsiderate of others’ feelings. ignore people who want you to participate in talking badly about others, even if you are not fond of that person.2) speak gently with a full heart.
3) be perceptive of others’ trauma, daily struggles, disabilities, and insecurities.
4) treat animals with tender respect.
5) don’t act out irrationaly towards the people you love. before you lash out, think about the consequences towards their feelings that would follow.
6) always remember that the positive energy you put out will come back to you.
Do not mistake temptation for opportunity
I will never be ashamed of the way I love. I love wholeheartedly and passionately and that is a good thing. I will not change my free and forgiving heart because of past circumstances. I will not punish myself for my openness and willingness to love others. I will not apologize for how I love.
How did it feel?
Like asking the knife for permission to bleed.
Steven Hawking‘s life proves what we should all know to be true: that intelligence without compassion is meaningless, and that every person who is truly intelligent knows caring deeply for others is the smartest choice a person can make
modern day romance is being considerate enough to tell me that you won’t be able to respond to my texts/calls because you’re busy with your own shit. and in return i appreciate that consideration and leave you to your own personal affairs because we’re two people in a relationship with our own seperate lives. cute.
When life sucks, throw yourself into art.”
It is true when you are by yourself and you think about life, it is always sad. All that excitement and so on has a way of suddenly leaving you, and it’s as though, in the silence, somebody called your name, and you heard your name for the first time.”
I feel very small. I don’t understand. I have so
much courage, fire, energy, for many things, yet I get so hurt, so wounded by small things.
Inni mężczyźni obdarowali mnie
złotymi kolczykami
złotymi zegarkami
sztabkami złota
ale to Ty podarowałeś mi
złotą rybkę
i tylko Ty spełniłeś nie tylko moje trzy życzenia,
ale i marzenia,
które nigdy nie miały nic wspólnego z namacalnym złotem.
Zrań mnie tak,żebym zapamiętała - powiedziałam
Byłam trochę bezmyślna
ale zapomnieć o Tobie to tak
jak zapomnieć o oddychaniu
a ja chcę żyć.
Ćma leci do światła,
komar do krwi,
ja natomiast do dusz, które mają do zaoferowania więcej niż tylko słowa.
Kiedy Cię poznałam
zapaliłeś we mnie małe światełko
tak małe, że wierzyłam w to, że nic się nie stanie, jeśli zgaśnie
Nie doceniałam Cię,
pewnego dnia odszedłeś
i choć Ziemi nie ogarnął natychmiast mrok
i świeczki wciąż płonęły;
ich płomienie przestały wydzielać ciepło
a moje marzenia skonały w otchłani chłodu.
i świeczki wciąż płonęły;
ich płomienie przestały wydzielać ciepło
a moje marzenia skonały w otchłani chłodu.
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