Maybe home is the passenger seat of your best friend’s car, maybe home is alone in the art studio, maybe home is tucked into your bed. Maybe home is many places // Go, because you want to. Because wanting to leave is enough." // Some people’s actions prove why their words mean nothing. Rise above and don’t be that person // "The things that excite you are not random. They are connected to your purpose. Follow them."

stop being used to the beauty around you. let it take your breath away all the time, let it inspire you. you don’t have to travel to stare at a sunset

I hope that one day i find someone who gets excited about me as much as i get about breakfast food.

I hope you wake up early enough in the morning to put on your favorite outfit and make your favorite breakfast. I hope you find your skin clear and hair healthy. I hope you’re content with the way your body looks. I hope you find happiness in small things today. I hope that, even with your ups and downs, you are content with yourself

humanity did a lot of things wrong but at least we got libraries, museums, and coffee shops right

Surround yourself with people who write diaries and take photos, failing that, be the person who documents everything, your youth needs to be remembered

"I need solitude. I need space. I need air. I need the empty fields round me; and my legs pounding along roads; and sleep; and animal existence."

"I need to tell you how amazing you are, just once; that you are the most wonderful person I’ve ever met. You are fabulous, hilarious, brilliant, just talking to you is the best thing I know."

"Don’t you wonder sometimes, what might have happened if you tried?"

"We should regret our mistakes and learn from them, but never carry them in to the future with us."

Anyway here I am still craving closeness and emotional growth

"I’ll melt like butter and then forgive you. Not because I am weak, but because I am not. Because I am the bravest thing. Because I will be the bravest thing."

"People say that your dreams are the only things that save you."

"I can feel guilty about the past, apprehensive about the future, but only in the present, can I act. The ability to be in the present moment is a major component of mental wellness."

"Listen to your own tastes. 
Be prepared to be unpopular."

"She is the warmth of the sun, the brightness of a star, and the very definition of magic."

"There are people you meet that you get to know, and then there are people you meet that you already know."

"Though I’ve known you a short time, I feel I know you intimately. Not your life but you, your emotions, your dreams, your aspirations."

"It’s hard for many people to believe that there are extraordinary things inside themselves, as well as others. I hope you can keep an open mind."

"If you don’t go beyond the limits you’ll never find the answer, you will never know the truth."

"I’m not heartless but I am emotionally unattached to many things. Either I’m nonchalant or truly passionate; there is no between."

"There are only two options here. You either love or lose yourself."

"Darling, let’s be honest. We were never capable of being average. It has always been all or nothing for us."

  • me: look at that dog!
  • me: look at the moon!
  • me: look at that cloud!
  • me: look at the sunset!
  • me: look at that tree!
  • me: look at those flowers!
  • me: look at that leaf!

"I am weary of personal worrying,
in love with the art of madness."

"She looked like, if you bit her, milk and honey would flow from her."

"I decide that no one lives for anyone else
I will live for me
I will die thanks to unconditional love

Fuck that whole “they took 20 minutes to text back so I’ll take 30” bullshit. If I’m interested in you, you can have all of my attention whenever I’m free. You’re busy, das cool.. Do ya thing, and I’ll be here when you’re free again

"You are on a level above representation - unique in every manner, to such an extent that no chain of words could ever fully capture your essence."

"Change is inevitable. Progress is optional."

"The harder the life, the stronger you’ll become. The stronger you become, the easier the life will be."

Earth would die
If the sun stopped kissing her."

"Please do yourself a favour. Don’t lower your standards to fit in. Don’t shrink who you are to make others feel comfortable. Do find and surround yourself with people who like you just the way you are and who encourage you to keep growing."

If you want to be pretty, feign amusement. Even better, be amused. Enjoy yourself. Laugh at someone.
Laugh at yourself. Laugh at life.
Be content. If you are comfortable enough in your own skin to laugh at the entire world then you will be pretty in that picture.

"Instead of asking why they left, now I ask, ‘What beauty will I create in the space they no longer occupy?’"

We must bring
our own light
to the

"Nothing is perfect. Just make sure the good outweighs the bad."

"Nothing has transformed my life more than realizing that it’s a waste of time to evaluate my worthiness by weighing the reaction of the people in the stands."


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I want to be known as someone who’s full of love and radiates light

romantic love isn’t everything. love comes in many forms. when he bought you coffee. when she complimented your outfit. platonic love is just as good. friend love is good love too.
 give people love because they deserved to be loved not because you want it in return

the moon is pretty and so are you

Someday you will wake up in a place you love with the people you love and nothing but excitement for what’s yet to come

by some miracle the universe created you. of all the infinite combinations of atoms, somehow that infinity filtered down to form you.
Protecting your own happiness isn’t selfish. You deserve every ounce of happiness.

when your world is falling apart around you, know that you can always create a new one.
someday you will find the right words. you will find your voice and you will be heard.

There will be a next time. Another love, another chance, another opportunity. Keep looking forward

After all this time, I think I realized that I never want beauty to be my defining trait. There’s beauty in my intelligence and creativity and the love I have for people. I don’t want to be defined by beauty, but rather define beauty for myself

At the end of the day, you are the only one you truly have to learn to live with, learn to understand, learn to love

Turn off the light and close your eyes. It can wait until tomorrow

If it moves you, if it inspires you, if it makes you happy, let it

Your softness is not a weakness but an ability to see the good in people

you may feel fragile, but you are unbreakable

It didn’t work out but you’re moving on. Better things will come

love exists in many forms. you are loved whether you know it or not

There’s something in your veins, something in your bones, your eyes, your smile. There’s something incredible there and I can’t quite tell what it is. Maybe that’s the magic of it.

romantic love isn’t everything. love comes in many forms. when he bought you coffee. when she complimented your outfit. platonic love is just as good. friend love is good love too.

As hard as it may be to believe, you have intrinsic worth independent of your achievements. You matter even when you’re incapable of doing anything.

Stop wasting your time with individuals who aren’t really all about you. Stop trying to force connections that aren’t all there, or telling yourself that maybe the reason love isn’t happening for you is because your expectations are too high. It’s not unrealistic to desire a partner that is attentive to your needs and wants, and who puts in the effort to not only get to know you, but keep you happy and feeling secure. Don’t compromise the things you value in a relationship for people who keep missing the mark. Your time could be much better spent. Some day someone is going to walk into your life and make you realize just why you should never settle, and they will be so bold and clear with their love that you’ll never have to think twice

There are countless reasons to keep going: to go on more adventures, pet more dogs, have more laughs, learn new languages. But when those reasons don’t seem like enough, have faith in the reasons you have yet to discover

kindness is always a good idea

that pain you feel now, will be a strength after some time

my interests include putting blankets on sleeping animals just in case they’re cold

And the award for the most stressed out yet lazy person goes to… ME!

the difference of one star will change a constellation. you matter

the universe is saving something special for you, just wait

In time, it will all make sense

Your bad days don’t make your good days any less good

at the end of the day it’s you. it’s you who has to make sure that you’re okay. it’s you who has to hold yourself. it’s you who has to decided to keep going. sure making some tea will make you feel okay but you really do have to make sure you’re okay. you have to keep holding on and keep trying, it’s hard out here, I know that. it’s you and you can do it. you can do whatever you want to do because you are strong and you’ve made it so far

Your strength inspires me everyday

Don’t find happiness in others, find it in yourself

you deserve every good thing that has happened to you, and you deserve all the good things yet to come

But, dear, look how far you’ve come

In case nobody has told you today: you are hella bomb, hella cute, and anyone would be hella lucky to have you.
Beds are so warm and soft when the rest of the world is not

find happiness in the little things.
  • the feeling of the warm water on your back in the shower
  • the crispness of your morning toast
  • the refreshment of your cup of tea
  • the smell of a book
  • your favourite song coming on the radio
  • the smile of a beautiful stranger

Be with someone who makes your Mondays feel like Fridays."

Cherish the feeling of soft, green grass beneath your feet

Let even the smallest moments of positivity send waves of gratitude over you

I’m not interested in whether you’ve stood with the great. I’m interested in whether you’ve sat with the broken

Let yourself be amazed by the kindness and beauty of those around you

Focus on the beauty around you; the leaves, the sunlight, the night sky, the gentle breeze, the laughter of your best friend, the passing clouds, the feel of warmth.

Give people time. Give people space. Don’t beg anyone to stay. Let them roam. What’s meant for you will always be yours.

it won’t be like what you imagined. maybe you get the road trip to the beach with coffee in your hand and the radio playing, maybe you don’t. but happy shows up. it’s in a 2 AM game of jenga with your new college friends. it’s curling up for another marathon of netflix. it’s meeting the person who will be your best man at the wedding. it’s 4:45pm in the library when the girl in the study coral across from you quietly whispers “i’m going to set everything on fire” and then turns to you and asks if you wanna take a break for dinner (say yes, she’s very nice and you both need a moment away from the stress). it’s the mornings they have omelettes and in good books and in a puddle that looks cool. it’s sometimes picturesque, but more often it’s full-belly laughter at stupid things on the floor of your friend’s house while in the background someone is debating the best way to win settlers of catan. 
i know it gets dark early now and the tired is setting in and everything sort of feels blank and hazy and you want to spend ages staring at walls thinking of nothing
but happiness will find a way in. it will be small moments. look for them.

Fear is not your enemy. It is a compass pointing you to the areas where you need to grow

chai lattes, oversized sweaters, the sky, spending the whole day in pajamas, fuzzy socks

romanticize the hell out of your life tbh? romanticize the freckle on your left ass cheek or getting gas at the station before sunset. make every moment a good memory. make yourself feel special because you are special and I’m tired of this attitude where we attack each other by saying “no one cares

id like to thank dogs for existing 

If you won’t sing in the car with me when we drive, we can’t be friends

Tea as big as my face <3

There’s something beautiful about keeping certain aspects of your life hidden. Maybe people and clouds are beautiful because you can’t see everything

"It isn’t the whole process of falling in love that scares me. No, it’s the worry that I’ve fallen for the wrong person again that does

"If light is in your heart, you will find your way home."

"Some people’s actions prove why their words mean nothing. Rise above and don’t be that person."

"Don’t tell me you know me because I am an ocean and you have only seen the horizon."




To go from hearing you introduce yourself for the first time to sleepless nights flash by just planning our future.  It’s so hard to be away from you, we’re halfway there until I’m in your arms but it still seems like eternity.  Here we are imagining life together, you on the bed next to me right now, your fingertips running along my side as we are lit by the lamp next to me, your soft murmurs transcend into the air echoing down the corridor.  I imagine us in the shower, glancing at each other as the water streams down our faces, the warm kind of water that melts you as I brush my lips on yours.  How timezones fuck us all up, how we try so hard to catch ourselves up at the same time.  But it leaves us to savour every moment, happy just knowing that we are awake at the same time.  How bittersweet it is when I imagine you’re here at the very opposite side of the earth and knowing that you probably can’t visit me here–the thing that fucks you up most is your own imagination, broken dreams, broken hearts.  When we constantly reminisce the times we had together until it circulates in our bloodstream, waiting for new memories to fill it.


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Don’t tell anyone that you love them if it’s not true, if they don’t deserve it. It’s a privilege to be loved by you. Your emotional …days are effectively over.

I will wait for you until the morning sun takes the sky. I will wait for you to join me on the porch for hot coffee every morning. I will wait for you to pick out a tie to match my dress. I will wait for you to kiss me when the time is right. I will wait for you until the sun sets. I will wait for you until last call. I will wait for you to stumble into bed. I will wait for every memory we haven’t made yet. I will wait until time runs out

I want to go on a roadtrip. I want to sleep in crappy motels. I want to sing along to happy songs while driving. I want to watch the sun rise in a different city every morning. I want to take pictures of new places. I just want to go.

Tell people you love them more, especially if it’s hard and you feel uncomfortable saying it
2. Sit with the silence, be with yourself in the calm moments and listen to the stillness.
3. Perform random acts of kindness for complete strangers.
4. Get artsy, learn to create something.
5. Find something you are passionate about learning, and spend several hours a week researching said topic.
6. Give up your need for others to see you how you wish for them to see you.
7. Be a kid, play pretend, watch a cartoon or two for god’s sake.
8. Instead of trying to find a job to get money, find some way you can get paid for playing/having fun.
9. Have your own adventures even if they are as simple as randomly deciding to go on a walk without deciding on a specific destination.
10. Read a book.
11. Dance/sing in public, even if you don’t think you’re any good at it.
12. Take care of yourself first and others second.
13. Look at the similarities you share with others rather than your differences.
14. Close your eyes and listen to music every now and then.
15. Stop looking in the mirror so much ;) you’re beautiful!

  • make your bed to immediately make your room look more put together
  • water first, then coffee or tea
  • pray or meditate, even just for ten minutes, to set the tone for your day
  • browse the news headlines ( & read the articles that interest you when you’ve got time) 
  • wear something you feel b o m b in
  • listen to music while doing your daily activities-commuting, cleaning, cooking, exercising
  • smile at at least two people 
  • smile at YOURSELF
  • call or message someone you love
  • eat food that makes you feel radiant
  • make lists of things you need to accomplish for the day
  • stretch for 10 minutes
  • record in your phone the positive thoughts you have so you can remember them
  • carry water with you (always always always)
  • shut off your phone for an hour and have some ME time
  • take a hot shower or bath at the end of a stressful day
  • try to make plans to spend time with someone at least once a week
  • think about 3 things you are grateful for at the end of each day
  • do something calming, relaxing, and non-electronic 30 minutes before you sleep
  • sleep pants-less

You know who’s gonna give you everything? Yourself."

Hatred paralyzes life; love releases it. Hatred confuses life; love harmonizes it. Hatred darkens life; love illuminates it

"Somedays life is all about your dreams, hopes and visions for the future. But there are some days where life is just about putting one foot in front of the other."

"Stop looking for reasons to be unhappy. Focus on the things you do have, and the reasons you should be happy."

1. Remind yourself that, in time, things will change and we all get bogged down at different periods in life.
2. Try to make sure that you do some exercise – as that brightens our mood and boosts our mental energy.
3. Be aware of the tendency to isolate yourself. Being around other people can give you more support, and can help you to keep going when you feel like giving up.
4. Try changing your routine. Just changing a few things can help you feel more in control, and less at the whim of external circumstances.
5. Set some small goals for yourself and take some steps to make them happen – again, you’ll feel less trapped as you will feel that you have options.
6. Make sure you treat yourself well so you know that you have value … Buy some clothes … or take time out … or do whatever makes you happy.
7. Pay attention to your thoughts, and keep your mind on what inspires you. Look for hope – create some vision – and remember: things WILL change!

She’s so complicated
That’s the way God made her
Sunshine mixed with a little hurricane

I want you to look me in the eyes and tell me there is nowhere else you would rather be. A beach down South, a mountain in the North. I am your journey and I am your destination

we’re all just human beings who live in different places.

I love seeing pawprints cause that means at some point a dog walked on that spot and then i think about dogs and its a good time

It’s stupid to be afraid of others’ opinions. Fear weakens and paralyzes you. If you let it, it can grow worse and worse every day until there is nothing left of you, but a shell of yourself. Listen to your inner voice and go with it. Some people may call you crazy, but some may even think you‘re a legend

You can’t spend the best years of your life waiting for somebody to love you back.

"Don’t worry when I argue with you. Worry when I stop cause that just means there’s nothing left worth fighting for."

we don’t know each other anymore and it’s a relief that at least I’m not missing you now

Fall in love with yourself.
Don’t just plant flowers, 
raise them so the roots reach your heart and your soul. 
Whenever you are having a rough time and all the petals wilt and you think the flowers are dead, remember the roots that dug into you. 
Remember you are important

You may have once completed my sentences, but you do not complete me. I am still me without you.

To fall in love with yourself doesn’t mean to always like yourself, but to always put your well being above the rest. To respect yourself.

let’s move into a cute apartment together and have a bunch of small plants and big cats

never give up no matter how tired you are

isn’t it amazing!! six continents, seven billion people on the planet, and a whole lifetime of choices and outcomes and in this particular string of decisions, in this point in time, out of everyone i get to meet, i got lucky enough to know you

I lied when I said that I don't stare at the way you're sleeping.

my dreams are my own, you have no place in them

I’d always wondered when I’d lose you. Now I’ve lost you, and I’m ashamed to say it still surprised me.

you are the space between my breaths, even the panicked hyperventilation. you are the opal on my finger, the birdsong in the breeze, and the promise of the future. you are the lingering scent of perfume. you are the last note of the song.

Hope, the thin silvery mist that rises uncertainly out of a hand being held or eyes catching briefly on each other

You said I was your whole universe, every star, every planet. But not even humans treat the universe as badly as you treated me

sometimes you just need to drive down a neverending road with your favorite song at top volume, thinking of that one person who never fails to make you laugh and weep in the same breath

we’re perpetually waiting for the unknown.

love isn’t supposed to make you angry. love isn’t supposed to make you sad. love isn’t supposed to make you question your existence in this world.
but sometimes, that’s all it seems to do

your voice is the softest instrument i’ve ever heard

turn on a lamp. the stars in his eyes simply aren’t bright enough

I am like a sunflower and you are the sun

You lived a cliché and I could never fit.

if I were the sun I would shine my light on you and leave all the ones who hurt you cold

if I’m lost, then how can I find myself?

despite all the bad days, and the bad people, you still believe in the good days. and the kind people. and that’s beautiful

never make a human being the center of your gravity

I know you’re already gone. it just hurts that you’ve replaced me with someone else and changed everything I knew about you into other things

being loved and being in love has made me a better person

 And all of a sudden the things I used to love hold no appeal, and the people I used to enjoy throw me off balance and mess with my emotions. Never have I wanted so badly to feel free.

"If you get tired,
learn to rest,
not to quit."

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In 2016 I want absolutely none of my time wasted I’m trying to make actual lasting connections I’m grown I’m not trying to play games I’m gonna die soon

"I made someone my whole universe while they only saw me as one star in the whole night sky when really, I was a damn galaxy."

"We travel because we need to, because distance and difference are the secret tonic to creativity. When we get home, home is still the same, but something in our minds has changed, and that changes everything."

there are two things in this world you cannot hide: sneezing and love.

How to be Confident Without Being Arrogant

1. Be approachable – Someone who’s standoffish, or likes to keep their distance, tends to make other people feel uncomfortable. But if you’re warm and friendly, and have open body language, you’ll help other people to feel much more at ease.
2. Be natural and genuine – We can tell if other people are being insincere, or if their compliments are false, or if they’re trying to impress. But if you work on being natural, and revealing your true self, you will seem like a “real person” who doesn’t wear a mask.
3. Be modest, and be willing to share the praise with others – Give other people credit for the things that they do well, and notice their hard work, and their personal contributions.
4. Listen carefully to others, and ask for their advice – We appreciate when others want to learn from our experience, or they ask us what we think, or they want to know our views. But a proud know-it-all never asks for others’ input. They’re sure that they are right, and others’ viewpoints do not matter.
5. Admit your mistakes and your areas of weakness – It makes you seem more human, and much more likeable, as we all make mistakes and are conscious of our flaws.

"Don’t worry when I argue with you. Worry when I stop cause that just means there’s nothing left worth fighting for."

Remember, the girls who say, a lot of guys are after me , should keep in mind that low prices always attract many customers

Right now, can you make an unconditional relationship with yourself? Just at the height you are, at the weight you are, with the intelligence you have and your current burden of pain - can you enter into an unconditional relationship with that?

"Don’t sit and wait. Get out there, feel life. Touch the sun, and immerse in the sea."

If it makes you smile, buy it or marry it."

"We each have an infinite supply of love and happiness within us. We have been accustomed to thinking that we have to get something from outside of us in order to be happy, but in truth it works the other way: We must learn to contact our inner source of happiness and satisfaction and flow it outward to share with others — not because it is virtuous to do so, but because it feels really good! Once we tune into it we just naturally want to share it because that is the essential nature of love, and we are all loving beings."

"Communicate. Even when it’s uncomfortable or uneasy. One of the best ways to heal, is simply getting everything out."

"You have to work at relationships. You can’t just walk out on them every time something goes wrong."

"One of my professors told me that forgiveness and trust are different. Forgiveness, she said, takes one person, but trust takes two. It requires one to be trustworthy for the other to trust. We talked about infidelity, and she told me that it takes an average of two full years for a relationship to recover to a place of trust. She told me that forgiveness doesn’t lead to trust. Only trustworthiness leads to trust–and not one act or one day of trustworthiness, but many many acts and days of that loyalty. It takes lots of little t’s to yield the big T….lots of little trustworthy demonstrations for Trust to be reborn. Forgive as you have been forgiven, but only trust the trustworthy–that’s how you live in healthy relationships."

“It is easy to give advice and much harder to receive it, but I am learning, with patience and introspection, that the advice we need the most is the advice we often give to others.”

im; my best friend. I can't find the words to describe how heavy your absence feels. I can't find the words for how grateful I am to have known you, to have witnessed and loved you, to have spent the last days, weeks and months with you and to walk the last few miles together. Death never perplexed you, not many things did! But a life without you the hardest thing I have ever had to comprehend.
“We sit together, the mountain and me,
until only the mountain remains.”

Lost respect for a lot of people this year."

"It’s very strange that the people you love are often the people you’re most cruel to."

"It’s very strange that the people you love are often the people you’re most cruel to.

Stretching his hand up to reach the stars, too often man forgets the flowers at his feet."

When you fail, that is when you get closer to success."

Trust the process. As long as you are embracing new healthy habits, changes are happening within you.



Everything that’s happening to you, is what’s suppose to be happening to you. So don’t worry.

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