You tend to tell people that you’re fine, but deep inside, you’re really not. And you try to convince yourself and others that you really are, when the truth is, something is slowly eating you up alive. But you continue to put on a façade that nothing’s wrong. All you want is someone that you can reach out to. Because you alone, can only go so far.
I want to buy nice clothes and nice things. I want to eat good food and taste new dishes. I want to create unforgettable nights with friends. I want to keep discovering amazing music. I want to read books and watch movies that I’ll never forget. I want to travel to places I’ve never been to before. I want to meet new people. I want to be doing something that I love. I want to be surrounded with positivity. I wouldn’t mind having someone to call mine. I want to live a good life.
You need someone who knows when to give you space, but will be right there when you need them. Someone who you can trust without a doubt. Someone who is open with you. Someone who can express all of their thoughts to you, holding nothing back. Someone who can love you not only physically, but mentally as well. Someone who will support what you want to do in life. Someone who will stand by the side of your dreams, and is going to push you only further. Someone who will teach you new things, as they’re willing to learn new things from you. You may want someone who’s beautiful on the outside, but you need someone who is beautiful on the inside. That’s the most important.
I just find it scary that no matter who you find, who you meet, or who you love, you’ll just never know what’s truly lurking in their mind. I mean, it’s impossible to know completely everything about a person. Some of us barely even know ourselves that well. And even when it comes to truths and lies. Anyone can be sincere as ever, yet hold the darkest lies. So you have to take that risk and believe what you are told. That’s all you can do, really. Believe. It’s not like you can peer into someone’s mind and take a look at everything, see if it’s true or not. Or take a look at things that are hidden. That’s just absurd. And yeah, actions do speak louder than words.. always. However, how many of us go on about our days acting in front of people and for people? Putting on a facade or a smile so no one asks “What’s wrong?” Or simply doing something because you fear the consequences? Anyone can act. And everyone has at some point. Some people do it for the rest of their lives
The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.
❝The feelings that hurt most, the emotions that sting most, are those that are absurd; the longing for impossible things, precisely because
they are impossible; nostalgia for what never was; the desire for what could have been; regret over not being someone else; dissatisfaction with the world’s existence. all these half-tones of the soul’s consciousness create in us a painful landscape, an eternal sunset of what we are.❞
❝We are very good at preparing to live, but not very good at living. We know how to sacrifice ten years for a diploma and we are willing
to work very hard to get a job, a car, a house, and so on. But we have difficulty remembering that we are alive in the present moment, the
only moment there is for us.❞
❝Time passed,as time passed,some people get worse, some people stay the same,some people get better.❞
If someone told you that you are beautiful, you feel happy. Or you actually do feel beautiful. If someone told you that you are ugly, you feel sad. And you don’t feel all that beautiful. You feel unhappy. And that right there goes to show you that you are simply living on opinions of others. It’s like you can’t think for yourself. You only know yourself by other people’s acknowledgments. Maybe something is missing inside. Maybe you just don’t know who you really are.
It seems like pain and regret are your best friends, ‘cause everything you do leads to them.
IT’S SAD WHEN YOU REALIZE YOU ARE NOT AS IMPORTANT TO SOMEONE AS YOU THOUGHT YOU WERE.
Never lie to someone who trusts you. never trust someone who lies to you.
"Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don’t and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said that it’d be e
asy, they just promised it’d be worth it"
If it’s meant to be, it will be.
Sometimes you just have to let things fall into place, and if it ends up not being what you wanted, maybe it’s better.
People are so fucking shady.
I was there for you. I helped you out when no one else would. I gave you advice when you needed it and listened to your problems, but where are you when I need you? Gone.Its okay because when you come running back to me, I wont be here for you anymore.
Society nowadays.
That person you called your best friend, is now talking trash behind your back. The person you called your significant other is out flirting with someone else. The people who you trusted, ended up being someone the least trustworthy.And the worst part about it, is you can never tell who’s real and who’s fake.
“I don’t know why terrible things happen to us sometimes, but I have to believe that something good will come out of this.”
We often,
run back to those to hurt us, hold on to people we should let go of, argue over the stupidest things, be jealous of people who don’t even belong to us, give chances to people who don’t deserve it, trust the people who lie to us, pay attention to people who love to ignore us, push away the people who want to remain close with us, drift away from people who are attached to us, reject the people who admire us, choose to be with someone who have bad intentions with us.
You know what hurts?
When you miss someone like crazy but they don’t even miss you at all. When you never cross their mind while they’re running through yours. You always wonder how they’re doing, but they couldn’t seem to care less about you. When their the only person you ever think about, yet your just another face in the crowd to them.
If you find someone,
Who makes you smile, who checks up on you often to see if you’re okay, who watches out for you and wants what’s the best for you, who loves you and respects you, don’t let em go. People like that are hard to find.
IT’S SAD WHEN YOU REALIZE YOU ARE NOT AS IMPORTANT TO SOMEONE AS YOU THOUGHT YOU WERE.
I believe that it’s quite important in life to be open-minded. To not put restrictions or limits on things around you. You’ll be able to see life in a much different light, and not be restrained in an ignorant and dull shadow that most people live under.
It’s nice to get away from things. To somewhat step away from everyday reality and off to somewhere completely new, where you don’t know a single soul. And the beauty of it all is that the possibilities are endless. Even if it’s for a little while, so much can occur in such little time. And just the time that you can spend by yourself in a whole new environment can simply change the way you think about things. That’s why I suggest everyone try and travel as much as they can in life. It’s a beautiful thing to do.
Sometimes, you just have to realize that they’ve moved on. You’re nothing but the past to them. Your part is over, and done with. All you can do now is to learn how to deal with it, and do the same as them and head on your way.
Sure, faint memories and reminiscence may occur. But memories are things that have happened in the past. And now, we’re all just living for the present. Thats what’s important now. The present, and the future of course. Go and use those memories as fuel. Burn them slowly in order to keep on going. That person is gone now. Suck it up and move on. Because most likely, they already have.
Sometimes, if you focus too much on the future, you’ll lose focus of the present.
And the present is now. Right now is important. Tomorrow is never promised. Live for now, but of course, always keep in mind of the future. But don’t let it eat you up. Keep your head up, stay strong, and carry on.
Sometimes you have to realize that some people are just better off staying in your heart, rather than in your life.
We meet so many people throughout our lifetime here. & You really do never forget the people that you meet. Even if it may seem like you have, it might just take some effort or time to remember, if you really try hard enough. It’s not like you need to remember each & every person, though. All in all, each person that you meet will either affect you in some way or not at all. Then there are the people who stumble upon your life and change it greatly, whether you realize it or not. Most of the time, we do realize those who have made an impact in our lives. Positive or negative. Big or small. In life, some people will slowly fade away, some will stick by your side for a while, some will stick ‘til the end, and some will want to be by your side but you push them away. I mean, that’s life. C’est la vie. & I feel as if some people will enter your life so you can extract something out of them. A lesson, perhaps.. or motivation, strength, sadness that you can turn into strength, happiness, a memory, maybe a beautiful friendship, or simply ‘love’. People are extraordinary, & some of us forget that we can learn so much from just someone.
“Once you’ve met someone, you never really forget them.
Our memories makes us who we are. You can’t change the past
Remember that people aren’t always going to be there for you.
Learn to stand on your own. Learn to fend for yourself.
Learn to be independent.
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